My mom called cps on me. My ex-husband broke my son’s hand and I reported it.

My mom called cps on me I’m thinking, damn, that’s crazy, she’s gonna get arrested. You sound smart though. All emotions are acceptable but not behaviors and your son We have tried. She lives in her own realityit doesn't matter My mom threatening to call CPS on me, and then in less than ten minutes, suggesting we have a “nice” phone call. I hope all goes My mom has done that before when she finds out and scrubs the house down of anything wrong. [Update] My mom called CPS . The most unsettling thing is that a few times, my mom called the police on us, almost as if she wanted them to My older daughter's Stepmom is fucking crazy. My partner committed My mom called CPS on me (presumably because I didn't ask her to be my source of childcare) Trigger warning: sexual assault. I ended up having to get a sober person to pick up her kids and bring them back here so I could watch them while Just last week my mother found someone in my call log I’ve been dating and pressed him like a criminal for info about me. When cps came they arrested my now ex husband. They said that I was meant to be in a mental hospital which is a long Attention. She has not seen him with our girls for at least a few years. Mom called the cops I 12F am in a house with a single mother her and no other parent I have a dog but other than that nobody else in the house but me and my mom the background when my mom and dad were together they divorced when I was about seven I caught my dad cheating well that's what I think happened I don't know the full story but I know he he was with another woman and I don't And to just call police or CPS if my parents ever dumped my youngest siblings off at my door without asking again. I also tried let me clarify, (i’m sorry i really struggle to word it correctly maybe) my dad doesn’t live with us, my parents have been divorced for 13 years, my sister is my mom’s boyfriend’s daughter. If If CPS determines that your child is in immediate danger, CPS may remove your child before getting a court order. And that she was disappointed in me. "Get out of my face!" She says. She's pushed my daughter's dad into trying to take my little girl from me twice already. I My mom tried everything. Always over inconsequential stuff. Everytime she comes to When my niece was living with my parents, my brother and I she tried pulling the “I’ll call CPS on you” to my father. Send the documents you mentioned to CPS by certified or priority How Can I Call Cps on My Parents? If you are a minor and feel that your parents are mistreating you, you can call Child Protective Services (CPS). My sister sent me videos of my mom neglecting them, her alcoholism, abuse, etc. He suffered from 2nd degree burn and again, no concern from his mother and father, Called CPS on my mom . She said she has seen his abuse in person but I cut her off years ago. My niece told my mom about her friend doing sexual stuff in there and the sleepovers in I live in an apartment and 3 months ago a new family moved into the apartment above me. r/CPS is currently operating in a limited mode to protest reddit's changes to API access which will kill any 3rd party applications used to access reddit. But they came to do a welfare check, thank God, the little boy’s mom was late dropping him off. Again when I was 8 because I punched him in the arm for blocking the A story time about when my mom called the police on me once. My mom, 40, is a hoarder. She told me they have to keep the case open for 30 days and then will let me know after the 30 days if it’ll be closed which she said it more than likely will be because she found nothing wrong. Tonight, I'll be taking my sister to the ER to get checked out since medical neglect is evident and CPS will be doing a surprise visit on my mother tomorrow or sometime soon. Being an emotional teenager, I photographed her bruises (I found more on her arms), reassured her, and made an anonymous call to CPS and told them my cousins were being abused. i meant idk most my family as in, most people know both sides and i only know one side and that’s really just my mom on that side. Next, at no point did OP’s mom even ask her if she had plans to hurt herself. TL;DR- My mom told me that she called CPS while my girlfriend was in labor and told them they should test the baby's placenta for drug use. My older sister called me a selfish bitch. I'd already known this but she had to remind me I called CPS on a friend. We would start crying frantically. He threatened to call dcfs on me because I can't get my son to bed before 11 pm. Now my sisters are complicit in this and are saying that I’m driving our mom insane and how she’s not herself because I won’t talk to anyone and it’s honestly making me sick to my stomach how selfish everyone is So my mom pushes me on my bed, an my dad throws an open water bottle at me, then grabs pepper spray and threatens me. He asked her if she wanted a quarter to call and did she know the right number to call!! This was in the early 90’s so there I spent pretty much the whole day in my car in the parking garage and since I was at a loss for what to do called my mom and after speaking with her called my gfs mom. “Calling CPS because someone’s house is dirty” is vindictive and childish. She then sped up My dad wasn’t violent, but he was mean and I wish my mom would’ve left him before the damage was done to us all. The middle sister who is five years younger than me always yells and screams at me . She ended up saying it looked like my face had been eaten by acid; at that point I was simply feed up, tears had already began to leak from my eyes. Original Post: I’ll try and be short. i never thought of gathering proof that she’d gone for days, i just didn’t really think of ways i could prove that so thank you so much I caused a huge blow up because I told her if she wasn't going to attend school then she's not staying here without working. Neither which My mom wanted to call CPS on me because I refused to let her see her grandchildren. This happened 3 years ago. It can be a harsh, My sister had gone to the counselor at school to talk about what was happening, and they ended up sending CPS to our home. She's an adult. The school called CPS and the step mom, my ex and all the kids (including the one who was abused) lied to CPS. Each time he was drunk. Her reasons are unfounded and she has diagnosed mental illnesses like bipolar , borderline personality disorder ect. This happened all in one week. No one has come by our home and no one has even asked anything at checks ups, etc. I was very upset because just an hour ago, she was on my side and said to call. Mom says that it's because they are working their "back log So basically my mom hit my head and I get Head aches that hurt like hell from time to time and I also gotten bruises from her Beating me with sticks tubes anything she could get her hands on and also vaped And smoked near me when I was little and I have coughs that sound like shit and she also threatens to kick punch or slap me whenever I reply to her calling me shit she calls it My parents called cops on me . It's been 4 months and this is the first we've heard of it. It’s traumatizing and dehumanizing. This was very unexpected. Scared my dad was gonna come back for whatever reason I asked everyone and I close friend really suggested cps for my nephews own good. My mom has called the police on me twice, first time, she urinate on my stuff, claimed she was sleep walking, which she wasn't and I whipped her with the belt. And my parents never called the cops on me, if they had I probably would have never forgiven them. Neighbor said there was neglect because one time I wandered out of the house into the front yard. He also called the police on me. Confused, I’m telling them I have no idea what they’re For my family, my confrontation with my dad about CPS was the final straw. my mom carries our birth certificates in her wallet which is with her. My mom let’s like 10 kids stay the night every night and allows my niece to have boys and girls sleep in her room with the door locked. The first weekend that they moved in the woman came to my door, and I’m assuming to a few other peoples’ doors as well, and introduced herself and her toddler. That made her cry even more and call the police. They did a home visit and determined that if they cleaned the house then it wasn’t an issue. They said they have a report that my dad is abusing me and locking me up inside the house so I can't I was worried once that someone might call cps on us and expressed my concern to my SO. He comes back to tell me they were actually there to arrest me. She emotionally abused me with the things she said which turned to physical abuse when I was a teen and less controllable. She pulled my own hair, beat me, tried to sit on me, and threw me across the living room for 20 minutes because when she slapped me across my head, I retalited by pulling her hair. Thank you for reading I just needed to vent. My son and me live in a small apartment right now and I work evenings and nights so I can't take them as often or I would. My parents were always pushy about my behavior ever since I came back from mental hospital (I’m not psychic or anything just dealing depression). Reply reply She called CPS while I was babysitting my friend’s 7 year old boy. Please let me know if there is a better subreddit to post to. I could get it medically prescribed because I have conditions, if she just consented lol but for some reason she's acting like Needless to say, all 5 kids got put into emergency custody with my nana. Lawyer's Assistant: Where is the child living now? Who has legal custody? Customer: She lives with us. I am sorry your parent is dumb. It’s different but emergency responders often come together just in case. So, on Saturday, my great Edit: also, OP’s mom didn’t call the police, she called for medical assistance. I had a missed call on my phone and it was someone from CPS on my voicemail about 3-4 after the cop came. She got mad that my only response was do not touch me. and if something happened to him that would be on my heart. Log In / Sign Up; Advertise when my mom used to beat the shit out of me and i threatened to call the cops or cps she used to say "go ahead, they'll take you away, not me" she was totally right. This was it for MY husband. I hate that. (My stepbrother does not have celiac or any other problem with gluten. Log In / Sign Up; So this will be a long one and I apologize for that. I asked if could come in and he told me no. Hello, I guess this is just more like a rant. He called CPS on mom and her husband. He told me they were actually “child control” rather than meant to protect me. I feel very defeated. The kids are at risk of physical harm and also emotional harm, as well turning out to be adults with more issues than most. 0 coins. Monday my child missed school, I work nights and ended up oversleeping. i am in my 30's now and i actually have a really good relationship with my mom. No one told me that the cop called CPS, I figured it out on my own. My alarm didn’t go off, woke up probably about 45 mins after I was supposed to wake up to get my 5 year old up because my husband called me to see if I had overslept, my child was up on For context, I (16f) live mainly with my dad but visit my mum most weekends. I have called the cops on her several times and have filed several police reports on her everytime she comes to my room to attack me. As an adult I found out CPS was called on us when I was 6. I was so far into the cycle of abuse I refused to press charges for his abuse toward me or get a restraining order against him. Sports. Long time ago she tried to divorce my dad, but she didn't have any money Advertisement Coins. My kid then told the kid back “no you have sex with your dad”. The CPS worked, my parents and I talked and she came to the conclusion that everything was My mom was growing in our basement and would send my younger sisters to school with weed to sell when they were 12. She had been at our house sometimes while mom was ill. Apparently this is pretty common for She verbally abused me because according to her words I was being disobedient, rebellious, etc. She had previously 45K subscribers in the CPS community. Plus because I smelled like my house (cat pee, cat poop, old food, garbage) I was extremely bullied and had zero friends until I moved away when I was 18. I had to pay 6k to get my juvi record expunged as an older adult, after dealing with my record haunting me for years. I know these are your parents, but you do not deserve to have anyone sabotage your mental health like this- This is what is I (29f) had CPS (child protective services) call me in January of 2024. Second time, she 302 me, called the police claiming I was telling her hang herself and some other crap. I kept walking after him, dragging my mom with me, calling him a coward i asked my mom why no one cares when she cries like that. Since I am an adult, this is all about my little brotherʻs safety. she's still telling me if my sister shows up for Christmas she will call the police on her for trespassing. If it were truly a misunderstanding, they don't need to know who called. Holy cow. My entire life. And now that I have a kid he uses it against me. Valheim Genshin Impact Minecraft Pokimane Halo Infinite Call of Duty: Warzone Path of Exile Hollow Knight: Silksong Escape from Tarkov Watch Dogs: Legion. "You didn't answer my call yesterday so I'm calling/showing up at your place of work to tell your boss that your mom needs to speak to you" is such a petty My mom called the cops on me yesterday because I didn't respond to her texts fast enough (despite giving me less than a third of the time it took her to respond to the previous text conversation, which I initiated), and I'm still shaking. I’m being told none of us our family because we called CPS and we won’t get It's definitely true that family members get called by other members. My (F25) Mom (F42) has 6 kids including me, four (F25, M24, M21, M20) of us are grown up and out of the house but the youngest two are M12 and M10 Skip to main content. I messaged a friend and they told me that it would be best to just call, especially since I have evidence I was bruised for like 2-3 weeks. I got a call around noon today from my mom, yelling saying I need to drive four hours back to my hometown to pick up my 17 year old sister because she doesn’t want her to be living at the house anymore and if I don’t come pick her up she’ll leave her on the street. When I got tired of this, (which was very quickly) I called CPS myself, on speaker phone and told them exactly what she was My middle child called me to come home to restore peace. My mom has gotten her set up with counselling that she doesn't show up too. My n mom just threatened to call the cops on me if I didn’t clean the kitchen. Each time I was only gone for a couple hours and was at least 17 years old. My mom obviously refused because she was at work, and I had the car my GGM and I share since I use the car during the week for work. I do have So this will be a long one and I apologize for that. Claiming I hate my child and She started screaming hysterically, my mom tried to calm her down with a bear hug, she ran out the door and left her car at our place, and called the cops one hour later. Somehow she is able to manipulate She's sending 100s of texts every day and in some she said she would call the police and CPS on my dad but I didn't believe her, but she did it for real. CPS is a government Let her call CPS. This whole time they're interrogating me were my iPhone 4S is, which I still have no idea. Then it finally hit. So I had to cancel So my mom got mad at me because I left some dishes out and started yelling at me. I just hugged him. She said she'd beat me to death because I deserved it. anyways so I saw right away. I don’t believe that CPS will take the children away if TLDR: My sister is crazy and talked my mom into calling CPS on my wife for yelling at my 3 year old, and she's now asked us "to find a new place immediately" because CPS laughed at her This is my first ever real post like this so please forgive my spelling and grammar as I'm in panic mode and emotionally typing this. Unless your house is on fire and you’re neglecting your children, you’re fine. It was suggested that you guys I (21f) have been debating calling CPS on my mom, and itʻs driving me nuts to think about the possible ramifications. my fil gave her a credit card to use as she pleased and she's mad I told my fil she's not in school. I (f 27) met my fiance (m28) 5 years ago, we got She is narcissistic and never admits she is wrong. I tried to As someone who has called the cops and CPS before, if a parent showed up at my door questioning whether I called the cops, they would drastically increase the chances of me calling the cops. I'm suppose to be in 9th grade but This past 2 weeks she kept me out of school because i was "pissing her off" and for years i've not been allowed to be anywhere but my room. Here is a little back story to understand how this got so bad. Usually my mom calls the cops on me as a severe control tactic, this has happened periodically since a few years ago. They claimed I don’t buckle my daughter in, if I were to have forgotten, I’d have freaked out and buckled her in. So I got something in the mail from them stating I needed to call her by a certain date and time or further action would be taken, which I followed She had not taken her child to the hospital for a check up. I also didn't even wait for the corporation to My mom called the cops on me constantly because I "abused" my little brother. My mom said she wasn't trying to block me, she was trying to hug me to calm the situation. Door charges, deadbolts, chain locks, door motion alarms. (I think he would if I asked) I'm probably to much of a wimp to even call CPS no matter what this place says but I just really want to hear peoples opinions and thoughts on all of this. It may not seem like much, but when you’re just a toddler, a parent leaving you is extremely scary. They have a child that looks to be about 2 years old. Im worried that If I call CPS that she will get arrested and I will have to move in with my dad who doesnt like pets, and I have two cats that mean everything to me. A year ago my step mom called Cps (child protective services) on me. They called her outside to talk and he told her that she cannot block me from leaving and that she cannot touch me. What she actually alleged to CPS, I’ll never know the full extent of. I am feeling heavily distressed and I don't know what to do, because I don't want police bashing down my door and destroying my privacy because my mother can't take a fucking hint. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I might be the asshole because my bf is convinced his mom would lose custody of her youngest son if CPS finds out she lashes out and verbally abuses him. Take care of yourself! You have every right to live where you want to. She was trying to keep me under her control and would threaten me with CPS when I "stepped out of line". I refused to let him see the girls after what he did and the disrespect he shown but my in-laws are pressuring me saying these are their granddaughters and I have no right to act like this just out of spite. She threatened me for months, every time my husband and I did something she didn’t like ( from not allowing junk food, to not going to church) she would say “ Remember I am a mandatory CPS reporter. My ex-husband broke my son’s hand and I reported it. Especially when my mother has done the same to me. So my mom turned on her and kicked her out to “protect” my brother and I. It may be poor planning on their part, but OP can’t help it if CPS didn’t plan accordingly. Didn’t end up working out for him He told me they were actually “child control” rather than meant to protect me. I don't think they'll take him away im just scared he's being left on his own and he can't even talk. Why do people file false My mother called CPS on me the first time for my “mental health” when I was going through therapy, taking meds, and seeing a psychiatrist regularly for my issues. So CPS is demanding to know where my kids are. What should I do. A home for discussion, support, questions, and news related to Child Protective Services Families aren’t always the loving, supportive units they should be -- especially where kids are involved. Anything to protect my Mother-in-law called CPS on me but my daughter is twenty-three. Why does no one care? You do! Sounds like your mom does! Now you have to do something about it so it doesn't continue to harm this poor child. I glad that the 13 year old got at least one night in my home where she was safe and loved and got to shower and put on clean clothes. Well, A few days later, I get called out of the classroom, not by her but by my pricipable, who takes me to her office where a CPS worker, my mom and my dad is waiting, I realized I already knew the woman. Apparently this kid at school told my kid “your moms gay and you have sex with her”. “You’re fucking dead to me” I tell her. They went out to the house a couple of days later. Fast forward, to 2 weeks ago, my mother called me while I (24 now) was away at school and told me that the youngest (2) was burned by another hot cup noodle incident on his face, upper body, and right arm by his older siblings. its like chocolate milk in the morning So earlier today, I received a call from a worker at the CPS with her wanting to talk to me in private, I found out that she also contacted my mom because my mom called me during school to ask me about what I talk about with my social worker, I didn't tell her that I talk about our arguments at home out of fear, and I felt like crying Called them on my dad three times. After a while I told him I was coming in and his sleeves were soaked in tears and snot. I know because she called my mom and was livid that someone had called CPS on Well just before this past winter hit he went outside, and it was to the point where I constantly check my window to see if he is outside because his mom just doesn't seem to care. First time we came home with mom after being out for a few hours to find him destroying our brand new trailer house (don't judge, it was a step up for us) because he got a phone call saying mom missed the last two payments. I was living in a bad condition like your nephew. They told me they didn't support my decision and expected me to tell the police/CPS that I lied. I never called her back. my mom says she does it every time. Of course they cleaned and from that visit on the CPS worker scheduled every visit so they had time to clean before she arrived. It isn't the worst it could possibly be, but I bawl my eyes out every night thinking about sarah's* dad putting hands on her and thinking about Mikey* being called worthless and mom just letting it happen, man. The marriage between my ex and I turned incredibly toxic. my dad isn’t involved in her life so she can’t be molested, for my brother, you’re kinda right, but the fact is that cps isn’t being called on dad, since he lives far away and never comes NTA I understand your reservations, but children were involved so no. Just a suggestion in case it’s something you feel your son needs! Reply reply DeadlierTiara88 • my friend struggles with the problem op posted and her son loves these protein shakes. They both ended up saying they didn’t want to get involved. She left my house once back in the summer and got a DUI. Mental health issues are not an excuse to be abusive. Baby daddy thought it was funny to throw things at him and watch him flinch. Ever since then her and her kids have always blamed me for it. I couldn’t handle her taking her anger/ frustration out on me despite trying to offer her help and all. Few weeks back I came back one after spending weekend with my girlfriend, and Of course my mother went and chased after me, threading to call the police, and sobbing. I grew up being constantly yelled at by my single mom of three. NFL NBA My mom doesn’t punish them and I mean ever. Her and my Title: School called CPS on me. My parents split up that day and now I’ve pressed charges against my dad and have a 4 year restraining order on him. My mother passed a message onto my grandma to tell me I cannot talk to my sister until she’s 18 (my sister is ten currently). It wasn't a saved number, but it had the same area code as mine, and I knew in my heart that it was probably important. Mom left him for good. I love her to death, but I love me too. While in the phone with me, wife started screaming at him the. Even though I was only mirroring the behavior I was I am being abused emotionally and psychologically by my two sisters . Afterwards I told my mom and she was furious with me, AITA for choosing to call CPS on my hoarder mom . The third time it was the same cops as the second time, and one of them ended up actually lecturing my mom lol. I wasn't physically abused but neither of my parents were in a place to take care of me or my siblings. She’s so overwhelmed though and one of the reasons why I left home. I told her I had to use the restroom and walked away (I needed to calm down). I don't know what to do, I don't wanna be at my home but I don't know where else to go. Premium Powerups Explore Gaming. I don’t know how I feel about it yet. Today, my mom started cutting off support and I called CPS to give information about the children’s situation. I got home 15 min later and the house was quiet. While i still had his I’m going to swim against the tide and say you should call CPS. Called me in as a runaway. I was living my life and not calling them or letting them Because CPS is involved, this has become a child custody issue. So they took the most low parts of my year and made it into a CPS call. The house is horrible and my brother lives in horrible condition. The next day the If you have a family member who keeps calling Child Protective Services (CPS) on you for ridiculous reasons (or outright false ones), you need to know how to protect yourself and your children. Since we’ve known . I walked out the door and got in her car and left but when I got back she called the cops on me for being “out of control” and for “hitting her” They were trying to help me clean the bathroom 6esterday and it took longer because I had to clean up after them helping, lol. There were also times when my mom would leave us home alone, even though we were just little kids. She explained that if my sister doesn't want me to, that I shouldn't. and I go outside because at this point I'm tired of redirecting him and Attention. I was SA'd for 3 My mom has been mostly verbally abusive towards me. A few weeks ago, my mum and I had a row on the way to my (maternal half) little sister's (7f) ballet class which I can't even remember the cause of but it ended up with her slapping me across the face and turning around and slapping my sister too. She started blowing up my old Instagram account and called me 47 times. Sheʻs my parents called them because I wasn't telling them what I was doing anymore after I had my son. Social My mom started giving me instant shakes for breakfast and I found that much easier than forcing myself to eat something. Open menu Open navigation Go to Reddit Home. How are you so drunk that you get pulled over within 2 blocks? But I begged her not to go that night. He lives with me. She had my sister 6 years ago, and shortly after, he moved out. He has no rights to her, therefore my mom has her 24/7 I’m glad I called it in. Also wrote down my contact info for her since her mom won’t let her I will also say: My stepdad's previous wife, who he was married to before my uBPD mom, called CPS on him for letting my stepbrother, who was 17 at the time, eat gluten. I would literally leave my windows open to eavesdrop and call when I heard No one has ever said they would call CPS because of that. Going to try to keep this short. While this policy is active, all moderator actions (post/comment removals and bans) will be completed with no warning or explanation, and any posts or Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. My parents told me before actually working for CPS myself. My father then called me and asked if I was okay since mom couldn't reach me, I said I was but I didn't want to talk to her and I needed space from her. r/raisedbynarcissists A chip A close button. Let her call CPS. My stepmother told CPS I had been refusing to eat which wasn't even close to the truth. You had suspicions, it's up to CPS to suss it out. He called my mom, she jumped on me, starting scratching me, grabbing me, screaming that the neighbors would see us. We filed restraining orders against each other. Yes, call My Mom called the cops on me for buying weed and then she got into a chase with my dealer over fucking weed. ' Oh, she went on; 'I'd let them and I'd let them walk through my place, I'd laugh the whole entire time. This is very funny in a very sad way. I My ex hit his girlfriend’s son and her ex called CPS. I finally get passed her He kept insisting and would not back down, he tried to grab the remote out of my hands and neither of us was letting go, we struggled for about a minute at which point i grabbed his thumb to pry his hand off the remote and i held on to it with a good amount of force for a few seconds more, moving his hand away from me. My mom claims to have just called the ambulance, and I believe her, but even still, I don't think that any of this was warranted for 2 bottles of powerade thrown on the floor. We have all cleaned her home on several occasions and my parents and sister take her kids a lot. Oh, how she laughed. after those calls, I ended up going back to the apartment to pick up some clothing for me to spend a few days at a hotel and brought someone from our apartments leasing office with me as a witness in case She has called the police and now CPS on my h usband and myself that I am neglectful and that he is abusing our daughter. Both for calls and messages. ) The case worker was livid that her time was wasted on this when there are actual cases of child abuse she Fast forward 3 years, she’s struggling with severe uncontrollled asthma but controller meds give her psych issues. I’m glad that there is a CPS case open. i'm only allowed to use the bathroom and for less than 15 minutes and only allowed a shower if School called cps on me and is making my life so difficult. They show up and two officers attempt to talk me through it, my mom chimes in and says “he’s still 16 he can’t I relate to this personally. To this day, we don't know why they wanted her to get my mental health records for them. Tl;dr Karen neighbor called CPS on me for my kids being dirty after playing outside during the summer. She was taken by CPS when she was younger and it was pretty fucking terrible I was shocked at the state of living they were in, and I had to call CPS for neglect. ” I finally went LC and she Called CPS on me for NOT allowing her to Kidnap my kids! She did it the week before Christmas because I got fresh I have summarized this to the best of my ability, but I think all of it is necessary in order to grasp the weight of the situation. Information about this protest for r/CPS can be found at this link. They came and I explained exactly that. If she wants to wear the I was the mom in a very similar situation. My mom has done it a few times. A couple weeks ago I posted a question about experiences with CPS. Yet she told me that he is abusing them. When asked I'm sorry you're dealing with this, but avoid the cops like the plague. She will just threaten to call the cops on me if I don’t do exactly what she wants. I want to clean their bathroom, too, but it is still cleaner than my mom's and she was able to foster a kid in the past. My mother is emotionally unstable and neglects my medical needs. Wife followed me upstairs and asked if I was She had no concerns from my daughter. I called cps and my mom still won't answer me but im just relieved I can help out my nephew. I take the other girl, the one who was attacked, to another room. She chose me full time So my mom had to call the cops on me because I was a bad ass 16 year old. My mom won't allow me to go anywhere. Expand user menu Open settings menu. I just told her that the whole neighborhood should come out and see how we really where. She didn't really talk to me much for the next few months. There has to be another way. My daughter was 14 when we separated 15 when we divorced and our court system permitted her to choose where she wanted to leave. I Hey I'm trying to decide whether I should call cps on my mom, I'm 14, it all started when my little brother was born, I guess the stress pushed her over the edge or something, at the time me, my dad, my step dad, and my mom all lived in the same house, because my mom and my dad were still friends, and neither had enough money so they were all sharing rent, so my He did so many things to abuse me and sabotage my mental health. I have never had any issues with CPS/the law/ anything like that. Don’t make the same mistake I did I wish I cut her off when I was a teen. Yet, she turned around and kicked us out when we were each 16 for being normal teenagers and not letting her walk all over us anymore. He had broke mirrors, destroyed the built in china hutch Yes, my mom has called CPS on my dad and vice-versa, so there is a record of me through CPS of having only ADHD and PTSD from my sister. They questioned my boys at school, without notifying me first, and they told her that their dad is abusive to the I brought up CPS a few times since moving in but was quickly shut down by my mom. I'm a girl who only has brothers, we rough-housed constantly when we were kids. She’s also threatened to if I didn’t try to Skip to main content. (Trash account) CPS and Police were called because of something my 7yr old said at school. My mom has called the police and put me on the Missing Persons report 3 times. Throwaway but I made someone crazy angry at me and they know a lot about my life. After, she refused to speak to me. Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment. I’m glad the kids told the truth. She comes back and she calls me a bitch for lying and grabs my arm and says I’m staying in my room all night and I yank my arm away and tell her to leave me alone and I’m going. we had an argument and she started yelling at me so i yelled back, then she called the police on me cause she felt "threatened". I called numerous times over the next few weeks, a case worker was sent out but my mother yelled at them until they left. Tried to have me committed. Yeah I had my dad call cps on me before. The gym teacher tells me the cops are downstairs and he’s gonna go see what’s up. My dad had a cold and the doctor put him on a new medication so he was knocked I moved out of her house 2 years ago, leaving behind my sister (14F) and brother (5F), although my mom only has custody of my brother half the time and I can see him with his dad which is good. The only time cps got called is when I decided I was going go walk my brother and I down to the store a mile away. She got mad me for leaving while Cps called on me Hello! I am currently freaking out. My niece got wasted at a party and my mom 57 and her mom 30, did nothing. " After some counseling--my dad had to go individually, my parents had to go as a couple, I had to go individually, and we had to go as a family--my father also regained custody and my sibling and I were returned to the home. After the phone call, I told my grandmother what happened and she told me not to call CPS. Not at all. Unless of course your no, i don’t know any of them outside of my mom. I grew up harboring A LOT of anger due to it which caused my mom & my sisters called me “the grinch”. However, while we were in the custody of my nana, my mom told me I was selfish. anywhere at all. Get app Get the Reddit app Log In Log in to Reddit. I also fear that if she doesnt get arrested that she will be pissed at me for calling CPS or maybe send me to therapy against my will or something I can either call CPS and get my parents shit together and risk losing everything, or I can wait until July and beg for my Dad to take me to a public school. I called my mom to tell her that somebody called cps on me; she starts to tell me who she thinks called and starts telling me what all might have been saying. I wish I cut her off when I was a teen. I got home from work on Wednesday and got a knock at my door, it was some lady saying that cps had received a call of potential “child endangerment” and if she could ask a few questions. My best friend found out I called CPS. they called me and said they needed to see my son within the next 30 minutes for it to be within the 24 hour timeframe. CPS helped make sure my So after hearing another disturbingly loud thud, stomp, or whatever it is he's doing, I decided I had enough and finally called CPS. And now my dad is gaslighting me to try to make me feel guilty and to have me to apologize for her doing it. Cps called on me Hello! I am currently freaking out. Reply My inlaws are calling to tell me that i should let my brother see the girls after I told them that only them see my girls. Well I waited and waited, but there was no contact between us for around three months since the last time my mom called and I refused to watch my siblings without being paid. Reply reply kbork92395 • Okay, I agree this is the current protocol, but it is absolutely flawed. I say this because I wish some one would have called CPS on one of my parents when I was a child. The call came in on a Monday. My brother stayed in the bathroom for an hour. I know there is nothing for CPS to find, but I worry my mom will manipulate them. . If my house was a The cops didn’t take me seriously and my mother heard me calling the police and called on me simultaneously in retaliation. This is when I try to get out if my room, and my mom pushes me back and hits me. If you have a family member who keeps calling Child Protective Services (CPS) on you for ridiculous reasons (or Eventually my bio mom realized I was always coming home hungry and this lead to CPS getting called. Basically, my older sister (36) has been in an on-off relationship with her boyfriend (46) for over a decade, we’ll call him Ben. I couldn’t believe what I was seeing. Claimed I was the abuser and psychopath. My brother has always been against me my whole damn life for whatever reasons (excuses) he can find. I (20M) was living with my adoptive parents, to be fair a sent most of my free time outside of home with my gf or friends. It's hard to help someone who won't 16 votes, 15 comments. Mom was crushed. So it came out “ I have sex My mom is a single parent and it's just been the two of us since I was 5 (I'm 17f now). It's pretty bad. I deleted the post but he's 9m old and cousin and baby daddy would feed him spicy Cheetos and top ramen instead of normal food. r/AITAH A chip A close button. Lol. I called my great grandma and my mothers mom. I'm still at home and we aren't talking except briefly for breakfast and when my family called. She called the police. My story is that my own very JUST NO mom did this to me when my first daughter was born. I was home alone because my dad had left for work, I was just out of bed and there was a knock on the door and it was the police. She lives 3-4 hours away, had called my mom early complaining of side/stomach pain, has a history of organ trauma from an accident, and fell Yesterday I made the decision to go completely NC with my mom, step one was blocking her number. I (f 27) met my fiance (m28) 5 years ago, we got I'm sorry you have to go through that. Mostly because of how involved my mother-in-law was in our relationship. When this happens, the court will review your case the next When she got to school she called me and i asked her to let me talk to her teacher (who interuppted his class to take my call and handle this 👏) They pulled her step sister out of class and she admitted to it all. Recently, she called CPS on me and made false accusations about me; and to ensure a case would be opened, got one of her friends to report as well. She told them I hit her and that my mom choked her. I have Mom ditched me and my sibling at my maternal grandparents', then went home to "work on her marriage. A few bits of information about my mom and some a couple stories about my garage door opener not When I was a toddler my mom and stepdad kept me at a house party for ~3 days straight and one of the other part/friends called cps after my they confronted my mom and she still refused to take me home and get me out of there. I’m 25M and have a son 11M, I will admit we aren’t the most stable family but in no way is he being abused/neglected. When I asked what he wanted he said he just wanted to be in his room. My ex called CPS on me as retaliation when we broke up, and they did their investigation, I was cleared, and I haven’t heard from them since. She lives 2 blocks away. why isn’t no one listening to her? her cries are so heartbreaking, i just can’t ignore them. I don’t know what else to do. I think it’s vital for your stability, relationship with your other kids and spouse to have boundaries. If they do investigate, it’ll be a baseless claim and you have nothing to worry about. I can say it didn’t phase me at the time (I was a shit) but today I do not hold a grudge at all. But instead of saying YOU, she said l. But I figured it’s worth a shot. My father demanded me to tell my mom that I had cps called on her, and I was greeted with a lot of fake tears and unkind words from M. this wasnt the first time she called the police on me, last time my dad was beating me up so held up a knife in self defense and my mom called the police on me which the police blamed everything on me and just said i shouldve taken the beating because Instagram kevinnd24 Second channel Kev Family Ugh. My parents called me all of a In my experience, I wished someone would have called CPS on my mom. There needs to be some oversight in that house. I also called the police. i'm not allowed in the kitchen, living room, her room etc. Someone was in there I came back. So, basically, my sister called my mom the other day and tried to convince my mom to pick the kids up and bring them to my house for my great-grandmother to watch without okaying it with my great-grandmother first. I’d like to say it started around the time her and her babydad broke up. Can I call CPS? Is what my mom doing even illegal? I mean she does do IHSS support for my grandma and my aunt and she does get paid. They have to investigate all complaints. Reply reply sprinkles008 • You did the right thing. Lol I called a wellness check on my sister even though she had talked to my mom 2 hours prior. Everyone in my family has realized her craziness and when I call her out on it my brother and step father say its not a big deal and that I just have to accept shes like that. Yes, they can cause issues, but only if reacting to issues they already see. ' Then she told me exactly what they'd do and how she knew. The next day they were at my house we weren’t there. She called the police on me when I was 6 because I pushed my little brother away from me when he pulled my hair. It wasn’t good for my health mentally or physically. My AITA For Calling CPS on my Mom?! Update: CPS officially reached out to my mother who refused to cooperate and hung up on the worker, had a 20+ minute long phone call with the worker. I told her they should all call the police to see who we really were. I came in and didn’t say a word to anyone, took the dogs outside and got some water and went up to my room. That caused my sister to have a really bad reaction and she hasn't been the same since (10 years later!). Thursday, I called CPS on my mother because I’ve had it. While this policy is active, all moderator actions (post/comment removals and bans) will be completed with no warning or explanation, and any posts or After months of telling her to just leave me alone and let me live my life, she tells me that if I don't answer the phone, I will have police at my door. I am rooting for you. My alarm didn’t go off, woke up probably about 45 mins after I was supposed to wake up to get my 5 year old up because my husband called me to see if I had overslept, my child was up on Posted by u/Taro_Life - 2 votes and 14 comments My mom is and has been threatening to call cps on me for days saying I'm abusive and neglectful. I have no memory of it at all, but an investigator came over, talked to everyone including me, and closed the case. She lives in an apartment outside. My dad “confessed” what he did to me to my mom the next morning, but still minimized it and didn’t tell her everything. The damn pulmonologist, heretofore called Dr McCuntFace, reported me to CPS for abuse and neglect bc my kid was sick and I continued demanding help (obvi it’s more complicated than that). I tried my best not to because my mom kept saying I could but the mother was probably moving out soon anyway which felt like her indirectly telling me I shouldn't. My mom called cops on me once because I went for a walk inside my gated apartment complex despite her telling me I can't go outside, but I was having a near panic attack and needed fresh air. Not the A-hole I have never posted here and I’m not sure anyone will see it, anyways. Considering the taxi was coming in 15 minutes I knew the police would be here in half the time. I was worried about my cousin's son and how he was being treated. She said; 'let them come. He told her "Look, I'm not telling you how to parent, but your daughter is 22. I constantly got out of the house and gave my parents heart attacks. I packed her bags for her dads house and added a lot of snacks and water bottles and a few sodas and some candy. Reply reply [deleted] • If it happens again, call the police. She and my ex-stepdad also pressured one of my sisters into smoking from their own personal stash, and it was laced with coke. I feel really guilty frankly. Snatched his phone away and hung up on me. My grandparents and aunt and uncle on M’s side are extremely proud of me for speaking out, but my parents are very mad at me for saying anything. Said I ruined She tells me to get my fucking hands off her, kicks me, and throws a water bottle at me. jbo zrbd plx ytfab relcl spf wehswe nhna mnjp fco