Intj only child. The kind that liked to play with your emotions for fun.
Intj only child INTJ Forum - The Scientists. Our relationship is mostly based around my children, and the fact that while she wasn't mother of the year INTJ mothers, what has been your experience of motherhood? I find myself feeling confident in the practical aspects of having a child, but I have deep anxiety about bonding and meeting my child’s emotional needs. Talk about a misleading question title @CBroe – BoltClock. He is a medical doctor (MBBS) wi Being an INTJ child can be awkward for anyone, but I thought my stories were good examples of how it can be especially awkward for a girl--squeaky Barbie story case in point. If you think INTJ's possess a "child-like innocense", explain what you mean by childlike innocense and provide an example if you can. I also loved to have every single one of my shows recorded and watched over and over again. Saturday night scifi/horror/monster ENFP here, I have two children an ENTP girl (9) and ISFJ boy (5), mother is ISTJ. I'm not entirely sure how this MBTI stuff works, but I can almost guarantee I wasn't an INTJ throughout my whole life. she made life unbareable as a kid. Posted by u/[Deleted Account] - 2 votes and 3 comments INTJ male. There was nothing assertive, artsy, sporty or the typical isfp descriptions about her. Discussion what is your Fi experience as an only child? only childs are known to be spoilt and self-centered so i was wondering if it has effect different from the common intj Fi experience. I hope NT's Temperament Forum- The Intellects. my childhood has forced me to mature much faster For redditors identifying as or interested in INFJs (Ni-Fe-Ti-Se) as described by MBTI. Although it can be painful to do, parents must learn to stand by, As a kid, I enjoyed talking to adults much more than kids, and only those adults who were able to connect the dots around things and we could have some sort of discussion together. As a kid, I was nothing like an INTJ. These quiet, serious children are intensely curious about why The INTJ Child Young INTJs are visionary, complex children who have a strong focus on the future and understanding the “big picture” of life. I guess that the only way I can deal with her is to keep distance. In general, I don't particularly like children, I don't find random little kids and their behavior cute or adorable, but don't really But I'm wondering if any of you have seen a pattern on what Infjs children types tend to typically be, If there is a pattern or not. I assume if I was born an INTJ, I would've cried only a little less during my elementary years, but I don't know. And that is the only advice that really matters, regardless of your child’s personality type. Only Children INTJs? Tags intjs? Jump to Latest 41 - 47 of 47 Posts. i live a block away from my sis, we are both the only INTJ's of our family, and we go see our parents once every 2 or 3 weeks as a team 25 votes, 43 comments. They do not follow rules or orders you give to them. Share Sort by: Best. You also have the option to opt-out of these cookies. I’d like to hear the different perspectives of intjs here being an only child and I'm an only child INTJ. I’ve recently started wondering if there is a correlation between being an only child and growing up to be an INTJ so here’s a poll! You won't have a very large sample size here but on another forum full of INTJs there was a similar poll with 104 responses. INxx Welcome to r/INTJmemes, the official subreddit and community for memes about INTJs / memes that INTJs enjoy. Learning now at 30 how to set boundaries. The INFJs are the Northern lights of the personality spectrum — rare, wondrous, and slightly magical. Hi, I’m 28F. My ENTP was a blast as a child but much more challenging and unruly than my ISFJ. I might consider having 2, but we'll cross that bridge after I've had 1 lol. His father was a well-known mathematician who worked in the Manhattan Project to develop the atomic bomb. Private. They are always looking ahead and Only child, both parents got PhDs and waited until they turned in their dissertations to have me. I lived for old Kaiju/monster movies- Godzilla, King Kong, Gamera, the stop motion Sinbad movies, Lost World, etc. The only way to stay sane was to become emotionless and stoic. It was only when I almost succeeded that I began to I do not have INTJ children, but my significant other is an INTJ. But this sensitivity, For those who score INTJ on the MBTI personality inventory. ^ I should know, I'm a doctor. In birth-order theory, only children come closest to comparable to oldest children, so it I guess I was a sensitive child, or I became one because I didn't really find shelter or relief, and those feelings only grew. Reply reply Thank you very much for this 🤗 The thing is to be relaxed and at the same time vigilant, a real balancing act. I had only child parents and have an only child, so I’m familiar with the responsibilities that falls to an only both in caregiving, and loss. He was the only child of an American father and a Jewish mother. < I made that phrase up. ENFP and INTJ are not all that different so I'll share my experience and let you come to a conclusion. Solidly middle class, large library. ISTJ children are usually detail-oriented, serious, and Our research showed that INTJs are 15% more likely to have grown up as only children, which is the second-highest positive association after INTPs. She is showing that she cares about you. The INTJ that I talk to more often gets self-conscious about this as well. Children should only be born to two people who are both certain they really want to be parents. Members Online • ya_nanana_ya Fi child being in the child position means it is innocent and carefree but usually quite self-centered and stubborn. ” I like to think I’m pretty chill though - long’s you truly don’t piss me off 😂 Oh yeah. You will watch your child suffer immense heartbreak and will be privy to the darkest moods when your INFJ can not reach their perfect standard. When I talk about children, I mean 3-10 yrs of age. I was basically the odd one out since because apparently to them I was the only kid who keeps observing a lot instead of minding my own business in toys and all, i pretty much notice everything around me For those who score INTJ on the MBTI personality inventory. Overall, though, being the youngest child seemed to have the least impact on individual personality traits. And INTJ-A. ). But, if you get stuck with a terrible partner, you will wish you had never melded genes, and it will make you wonder if you ever* should again. However, she doesn't understand my point at all. Only members can see who's in the group and Born in october, during fall lol, I'm a libra, I'm the middle child My mom is an ESFJ, born in september, a virgo, she's the youngest child among her siblings (she has many siblings) My dad is an ISTJ, born in october, a libra, the youngest child with his single brother My brother is an ISTP, born in october, a scorpio, the youngest child Short answer:yes we were happy as children long answer:INTJs are extremely happy when they are given freedom. Only Children INTJs? Having kids changed everything. He has been a hard-working man in his whole life. Neither of my parents are INTJ, though I'm not sure what type they are. DID YOU CLEARLY NOT SEE THE TITLE THAT SAYS INTJs. Kid me would just forgive and move on because all he wanted was a friend and a functional family. My childhood is long since passed, but I ‘play by myself’ very well lol. Problems only arise for us because we lack the skills to make ourselves fully understood, we do try however but the result is usually quite frustrating. My grandparents took care of me often and they'd show or teach me cool stuff and I really enjoyed that. The do not bring up those kids. ” – John Locke, a rumored INTP. The INTJ father needs to take Understanding the real essence of INTJ children is a difficult task because they are not always easy to figure out and are almost impossible to control. Welcome to r/INTJmemes, the official subreddit and community for memes about INTJs / memes that INTJs enjoy. And a loner. Think you might be the parent of an ISTJ child? Maybe you’re an adult ISTJ and you’d like to get a better understanding of your childhood experience! To the young ISTJ, words only go so far. I know only-children who wanted siblings, but I think I would have been better off as an only child. I also never really enjoyed specific sport activities or playing around except creating stories maybe for whatever I played with. INTJ Self Righteousness at it's best. S Joseph with csjoseph. In the MBTI world, INTJs are known as “Masterminds” and make My father is the only one who hasn't taken any personality tests yet, but I'm pretty sure he must be an ENTP. When I grow up and I become a teenager it become worse too. And when my toy doll got flushed on INTP is almost opposite of INTJ despite only 1 letter difference. I’ve made a kid cry with it one time on a jog. Open comment sort options I believe that the culture has changed somewhat since you were a child. 1 2 3. Those 6 to 7 Traumatized INTJs wouldn’t want children. So if you have children and know their type please put below He's the first and only NT in our family, empathy is a foreign concept to him and he still thinks nobody can measure his intelligence. ISFJs have the tendency to be more controlling and hovering, which is where the INTJ will want to break the rules even more. An INTJ child with not care what is expected of her, but march to her own drummer. By adopting a child, you give that single child a better life. true INTJ Is more focused on the future and “what is going to happen” instead of “what is going on”. Later I was labelled an INTJ again at 30 based on testing at my workplace. I think it's the most interesting way a child can be. They long to understand why things are the way they are, and to know the core truth behind every rule. *cues the peanut gallery to boo as the female INTJs whine-brag more contradictions* Sorta kinda an only child. My take on IS children from what I've seen is that they are very easy to parent. I only dislike misbehaved children and that is usually a reflection of the The only thing I can tell you is that you need to do whatever you can to make it until you're financially stable and out on your own. Feel free to contact with any questions. I was also told I was very mature for my age and that my imagination was a wonder to adults. I think it’s random. The career counselor administered the MBTI to us and I was one of maybe 2 INTJs out of my group of 50. And maybe that's normal, but a lot of descriptions of INTJ kids being unemotional and logical even then don't fit me, though many other parts of the descriptions do. EN*Ps For those who score INTJ on the MBTI personality inventory. Then again, the fact that there are at least two supported theories on this inclines me to believe that the only thing you can predict in a child is their first two preferences (without attitudes, i. My sister is an INTP. I'd spend hours silently playing in my room. This is a long one bc this is a complex issue that kind of ate at me until I accepted that I simply have a rare personality type. Cause the personality type is part of the question. personal experience:as an intj i will say that from a very young age i liked analyzing everything and understanding how things work,i Before learning that I'm INTJ, especially child era, I cried becuase of bullying. Each of them has a unique personality and I make them talk to each other even before the movie Toy Story was created. My dad is ISFJ, my mom is ISTJ. The way you talk to kid, even when they are few weeks old, is extremely influential towards their personality and psychological grow. If you need to agree that the sky is purple when you know damn well it's blue, consider doing so. Action is the “The only fence against the world is a thorough knowledge of it. Their thirst for understanding is a The INTJ inner child has an insatiable hunger for knowledge, constantly seeking to understand the world around them in a logical and systematic way. Please enjoy. It's toxic , i'm telling you the truth "child prodigy" is just two words . Y'all have never experienced teaching a pandemic child. I remember crying about odd things; for example, when I was nine, my mom had me kill a beetle, and afterward I felt so bad I cried. ADMIN MOD intjs that are only childs . So yes I kinda stereotyped you Everyone is commenting on the Child like behaviour around close friends being normal, what is normal for certain intjs, the closer the person the more the person Will know about out secret emotional side but I would like to comment about the openess you Said you would never expect from a INTJ, intjs are pretty Open minded if you can logically convince a Intj hes wrong, he Will i have a manipulative narcissist of a mother. In school a teacher commented he was a very retiring child, as an It's harder because you are female, so you not only have the INTJ thing going but your mom probably feels like you are not "female enough" like she is, in terms of speaking in terms of relational values and people's feelings. I'm an INTJ. e. In the MBTI world, INTJs are known as “Masterminds” and make What are INTJ children like before developing their Te? Question What does the theory say about this? How does underdeveloped Te manifest in young INTJs, and around what age do they start developing/strengthening their auxiliary function? So I lost myself in books and promised myself things would get better -- the only other option was When I was a kid, just 4 channels, and watching something on demand wasn't even a dream. INTJ children are highly creative and intellectual, yearning to understand the truth of the universe. Reply reply Very curious and extremely annoying. I only tested ENTJ like 2 times then Only if they were misstyped as a child Reply reply The_Deranged_Hermit • Yes. Despite divorcing while I was young, I feel like being the firstborn of both my parents and them subsequently having more I'm currently twenty-four, and I fit pretty well into a stereotypical INTJ. (I'm only a couple years behind you but had a different experience myself. :S I loved collecting Mighty Beans(yeah, a waste of money), and coins of sorts. I regularly binge whatever I’m interested in and switch between ‘micro-obsessions’. Firstly understand that this page is My ex husband was an entj, he was the only child. I’m an only child. – C3roe. All sisters. Way too many parents are strong evangelicals, and don't seem to understand that for the sake of the theoretical children, people should have children only if they are sure they want to and are prepared to do it well. It actually matters more about with whom you have a child. What’s going on here? Some psychologists have theorized that only Intellectual and intense are perhaps the two most common attributes of young INTJs. We are also The INFJ inner child is a veritable closet detective, inquisitive and insightful, ceaselessly investigating the “why’s” of the universe. Also female INTJs: *brag about being more socially acceptable than the social loser male INTJs* Peanut gallery: *cheers either way* I'd suggest asking how male INTJs experienced childhood for comparison, but we both know that's not what you want. I did not know about my INTJ typing. If your child is afraid of walking into large social situations alone, you might arrange to walk in with your child, or have your child go to the event with a friend. (Oldest Original Child): INTJ Father’s Fiancé’s Daughter: ESFJ 22 Year Old Full-Brother: ESFP Father’s Fiancé’s 2nd Daughter: ISTP 16 Year Old Step-Sister: ESFJ There are different studies that try to show where most types fall on the birth order, but we know these can only be so accurate. 5% middle, 19% youngest, and 16. Oldest child in my family and of all cousins and did alot of "care aka babysiting" for them all. Also, my parents don't really tell me many stories about my childhood. I agree with every word you said. The kind that liked to play with your emotions for fun. I ended up pulling her hair. 18M INTJ here (only slightly older) and I can somewhat relate, but it's probably more connected with behaving mature than the age itself. Only child but then for step siblings and turned to youngest Reply reply youngest, my older brother is an intj second is an intp Reply reply Nice_Eye785 No. I'm interpreting child to mean between 1-18 years. In the MBTI world, INTJs are known as “Masterminds” and make Being an intj as a child is being like a very mature and responsible adult. My mom tells stories about me playing with them as a toddler, and forsaking all the more age-appropriate toys the greatest anti-child cycle Precaution: This is only for silent intjs. by CS Joseph | Mar 25, 2024 | EgoHackers - 4 Sides of The Mind, ENFJ, ENTJ, ENTP, ESFJ, ESFP, ESTJ, ESTP, INFJ, INFP, INTJ, INTP, ISFJ, ISFP, ISTJ, ISTP. This is for INTJs only, if you are not an INTJ, then why are you looking at this topic. This question made me question myself. It's a micro, short-term, focused decision. We only learn to live above Chase: Hey guys, it’s C. But yes, I experienced abuse as a child. These cookies will be stored in your browser only with your consent. realize what I'm doing and how crazy it seems, then continue on talking to myself. Remember , you're the only person who can decide is value. Otherwise I'm a pretty intense guy. For example, if I were to guess, me being an only child most likely encouraged many of the “intj” traits that I have (independent, withdrawn, creative, introverted, etc. The age gap between me and the oldest is 10 years and between me an the twins its 14-15. Dark Mode; Light Mode What, in general, does being an only child do to your type as opposed to growing up with siblings? Where I'm coming from: I'm an ENTP and an only child. "INTJ" with adopted and bio child. I’m not as lonely as a kid because the stuff toys were my friends. Whereas a completely different situation for another person could also result in those same traits such as some of the examples you bring up. " Okay. If someone heard me, they'd probably think I'm crazy, 'cause they're only hearing half of a conversation. Reply reply Recently I've been curious as to the reactions with children for INTJs. Friends were a very on and off thing growing up, coming and going in phases, but I had fun with everyone. Open comment sort options So - an INTJ would be Ni>Te>Fi>Se I am an INTP, so: P means N is extroverted, from this I can derive that I will have (in no order):Ne, Si, Ti, Fe INTJ Virgo men might stand out as visionary leaders who also possess an uncommon attention to detail, ensuring their projects not only start strong but also follow From: Parenting Skill-the INTJ Child and Parenting Skill with Myers Briggs! If your child is INTJ, Introverted with Intuition, Thinking and Judging, parenting skill can be improved by understanding that these INTJ young ones are typically intensely private in their own thoughts kind of kids. Like, if an INTJ is under stress, it will manifest its ESFP tendencies and vice versa for ESFP. Her mother died in 2020 aged 100 after having suffered dementia for 30 years. Children are aspirational and don't understand shame – most of them strive to feel happy, because that's the emotion that makes them feel good. Premium Explore Gaming. Valheim Im on team only like my own and some friends kids. Only my father drinks alcohol at night and didn't miss work. My older brother made me cry because of the absolute hatred he put in me at certain points, from the period I probably turned INTJ onwards, but I Have any other INTJs experienced this and made a correlation with their personality type? I suffered extensive emotional abuse as a child and had to suppress much of my feelings in order to survive. They also question authority even from a young age and have a hard time understanding why they must follow certain rules that are set The ISTJ Child. invisible. Ni is developed in early stages of life 0-7 The only reason I’d raise a kid is if I adopted because I feel like there is no point in having my own child when there are already so many without parents. Like, which kid likes the villain? I loathed dinosaurs. Share Add a Comment Study shows majority of INTJs have younger brothers or sisters, and them having to take care of them is what makes them develop strong TE 2 nd cognitive function. I walk outside INTJs, what were you like as a child? Question it was hard for me to focus on a social life so i only rly have 2 people i can call friends, but they’ve been extremely supportive and loyal and i love them very much. Only really had one friend through the first four elementary school years. I’ve gotten, “Looks like I take no bullshit” “Yakuza” “stuck up” or my personal favorite, “generally unapproachable. I tend to struggle with deep relational connection, and really only feel attuned to my husband. she convinced me to do the same. They don’t have an innate sense of re INTPs as only children are often independent, and a bit secluded. Oh, and a serious love for cartoons and video games. Now I can spend time with children, but I don’t feel like I want to spend ALL of my time with children and giving up This was my upbringing except I am an only child. I feel like I was a bit more outgoing as a child but I am the total opposite of that now. life, and today, we are going to be doing a very well, probably my second most requested video to do, which is a type profile of the 16 personalities, according to Jungian Only child here. y'know, there's what we call "youngest child syndrome". Education of the child should start at home at early age. You’ve been blessed to raise someone The intjs around me are pretty into extreme sports and do them very good, such as skateboarding and motorcycles. After reading this I will manually move from intp to intj because if me and this guy aren't the same mind then I would probably go crazy (we already are but it's cool Children: intj, isfp, enfj. As the only child, I'm hoping for a different scenario! She is likely an ISTJ. God, I used to have nightmares of them when I was young. INTJ Forum - The Scientists NT's Temperament Forum- The Intellects. i do hope to move on from everything but i know that’s gonna take time. 11 votes, 44 comments. They are commonly seen as the oldest sibling, taking on a protector and INTJs children are very observant, which can be challenging for their parents at times. Reply reply likeheinz420 When I was a kid one of my classmates stole my pencil. The only child of an emotionally unavailable mother and INTJ father. Used to read all of the time, even during lunch and while in the bathroom. Too many suggestions or feedback on a project while it is still going on may interfere with the INJ's creative energy. An unconcerned search for actuality. I later learned MBTI is not as accurate or predictive as the Big 5 Personality tests so take MBTI with a grain of salt. This is also probably because I was quiet and Good on you. I'm not very familiar with the shadow functions and all that. Interestingly enough it was the only thing I ever felt strongly enough about to "speak out against". 4 older brothers, For those who score INTJ on the MBTI personality inventory. I have a sibling but there's a huge age gap, so we weren't really kids at the same time. Now , i'm doing ok , not because i'm the child prodigy , it's because i choose to not giving a fuck about them and do what i want and work hard on it . We hung out a lot but he tried to Same thing for me with only have 1-2 close friends. So it is quite possible that he was either mistakenly typed as INTP as a child 24 votes, 38 comments. You don’t just run into an INFJ, it’s more like those perfect, poetic, passing ships moment when the universe somehow aligns and you happen to No, :only-child would select an element only if it is the single child of its parent. When I was a child it was still OK. I know everyone loses their minds at the prospect of not giving your child siblings, but the grass is always greener. Where on earth would you get that idea? A middle child is a child who has siblings older and siblings younger. Lots of books and nature. Many parents remark that their INTJ babies seem wise – or older than their years. I think part of it comes from being an only child and not having many people to talk to. My ex boyfriend was the 3rd born out of 4 and the only male, he was an infp. My kid would stick to her guns and I would stick to mine and eventually, she would roll her eyes, say "whatever 177K subscribers in the intj community. My parents were fighting until their divorce, my mother was sad, lonely and resentful - I felt unwanted because I was the child of that man, like I was hindering her dreams of a good family by occupying the space which The INTJ Child. So in the house I was the youngest For those who score INTJ on the MBTI personality inventory. luckily my older syster had already done the hard work of moving way the fuck away from mom. Both are very devout Christians (my dad is a prison minister). In this video We are explaining the Your Queries :-Dr. Only child. INTJs are extremely independent and curious, even as children. Comment and let me know if you have kids, want kids in the future, or don’t because I’m curious. Though I didn't turn out as good as I could have, I value my family and the way they collectively raised me deeply. It's part personality and part a product of being an only child, I'm sure. Children without younger siblings or being the only child in their families tend to develop Fe and turn into infj. INTP, earlier INTJ, oldest child Reply reply mee-thee My partner is ENTP, and I’m an INTJ. Had me in church from since before I can remember. But by birthing a What she say is illogical for me and what I say doesn't make sens for her. Like. Qamar- ul- Hassan was born on (July 4, 1971) in Rawalpindi, Pakistan. I can see her point of view. But things For those who score INTJ on the MBTI personality inventory. @freddo - I'm interested to hear more about how your life was/is like with the ISFJ-mother-ISFP-father-INTJ-child family dynamic that we both have, if you're willing to share (via PM, if it Posted by u/[Deleted Account] - 3 votes and 5 comments They expect you to turn everything into gold . For those who score INTJ on the MBTI personality inventory. He has a kid that is 8 and our parenting style vs the moms is very different. The climate of the country conductive to not leaving the house (additionally I'm hypersensitive to cold weather). I'm always honest with her and try to never be dismissive - those are ways we generally (try to) treat For those who score INTJ on the MBTI personality inventory. Because it was the only thing I knew to do as a kid. I'm INTJ + an only child, so I think I'm hardwired to talk to myself. Reply reply Sam_meow Honestly, it does not. I'm involved only in as much as I can observe the situation, have a level of connection with both individuals (Fe and Ni helping), know my dad's style of communication more than anyone else in his life (if you asked he would confirm) and want to give my dad some perspective based on some anecdotal evidence of ENTP INTJ interaction that would A biological child has a higher chance of success in life than an adopted child, and consequently has a better chance of improving humanity. But I was raised away from them and only had them as a part of my life around 4 or 5 years ago. I got accepted to a uni abroad and blatantly told to my face I hope you don’t get Our group will consist of ONLY INTJ men and women. I once walked up the stairs to my girls’ bedrooms and I heard them talking about me. If you're on the fence, don't have kids - risk your own happiness rather than risking a child's. INTJ children want to feel that they are listened to, respected, and that their ideas aren’t going to be tossed under the rug or laughed at. INTJs don't show their sensitivity, if people call you a sensitive child, are you sure you're an INTJ? Reply reply INTJs without children, how old are you and do you regret not starting a family? I personally hated being a child and couldn’t wait to grow up. I loved seeing many of those, I liked astronomy and of course I was attracted to strategy games like chess. WHY ARE YOU Home. The INFJ child often faces many struggles growing up, especially being that they make up such a small percentage of the world. Kind_Cardiologist495. I had many friends in elementary school, and was well-liked by almost everyone. I liked Sherlock Holmes type detective fictions. Upon his father’s death, Fischer moved to Jerusalem to live with his mother. You guys and we INTJ's have the exact cognitive functions but in the opposite order. I enjoy most activities by myself. Had a Manipulative narcissistic ESTP father. Question at hand: “Does (my real name) like me?” This has been a question asked about me, TO other people. Also, the reason I asked this in the INTP forum is because I feel that you guys are the most trustworthy of types and I trust in you to give a thorough and honest answer. It's entirely possible that the child has always been an INTJ, just as it's possible that they've always been an INTP, only now as an adult they've been misclassified as an INTJ. INTJ Children Preemptive note: This blog post is specifically intended for those interested in studying INTJ personalities. Commented Mar 23, 2017 at 15:01. There was also a poll only asking if you were an only child and the result of 169 responses was No 75% and Yes 25%. I was an INTJ by age 3. We are child-free and chose to do so to maximize our time with one another. Instead of focusing on that, we decided to write about how each type behaves in their birth order. I think i only met one INTJ but never got 10 votes, 22 comments. I'm an only child in the marriage, but I have many step/half siblings. Imho, coaching or teaching children, in sports or academic subjects, is an immensely rewarding activity for any INTJ. He can be very harsh and blunt with her, and his jokes can borderline be mean. That said, INFJs are often one of the most misunderstood personality types because they comprise only 1% of the population and are often surrounded by people who The only way you could make the connection is to confirm assumptions with children who were removed from their family at a young age. Thanks. And we will get into that in just a moment. If I want to go see a movie, I actually enjoy it more if I go to the theater alone. Lol, not for this INTJ. MBTI none For those who score INTJ on the MBTI personality inventory. That child, every child, is entitled to two parents who completely want the child and are emotionally, mentally, and financially equipped to give it Welcome to r/INTJmemes, the official subreddit and community for memes about INTJs / memes that INTJs enjoy. But NEVER ever to my face. An INTJ child would be more likely to classify the world as a threat and to remove him/herself from it emotionally. Some types might, but if we only had ISTJ's for example, would we have evolved? Invented technology? Ants are masters at survival, but they don't have the occasional INTP ant who can invent a taser to scare off the ant-eaters. As the group expands we have to work together to weed out any non-INTJs that are here. Additionally, INTJs may be more likely to discuss their MBTI type because they tend to be more focused on intellectual topics and enjoy discussing theories and ideas. With a predisposition for wonder, INTJ children discover the devices of their own callous defenses. I think they probably did their best and love me in Intj are like children? Do u think we are goofy,silly ,innocent at heart? I sometimes caugh myself being so childish,acting goofy,especially when alone Of course when in public i am an intimidating mxtherfxcker r/intj • I only find dark moody aesthetic picture boards for INTJ’s. The only time I like loud music is in the car with the windows down, and that's a good indicator of me being in the grip of Se as a coping mechanism for stress. F But nah, not the only bitch faced INTJ. Reply reply My grandfather was definately an INTJ. It was not fun for me being raised by Si doms lol. For a while we became pals but that only ever lasts so long. Also, being a 1. INFJs are rare, which makes it difficult for them to feel truly As a child of an INTJ who did not want to have children (but bowed to the wishes of his ISFJ wife and social expectations) please only have kid(s) if you really, really wish to and if you are prepared to shoulder the lifetime responsibility of parenting. They worked jobs where they got off at 5 every night. I'm not an only child, I have a brother and three sisters. Being a parents goes against so many of my INFJs love to role-play. Controlled by my mother. My nieces are INFJ and INTJ. 5 generation Korean (I The child - whose feelings are the only ones that should matter in this scenario - since they're the vulnerable and dependent innocent being who didn't get a choice in whether to be here or not. I'm an only child and so is my Being an INTJ parent, I can't help but try to navigate my child's educational experience in the most thought-out and efficient way. If I take the test and use the answers that my adolescent self would've used I The Struggles of the INFJ Child. On Holiday. Some of you can be dance monkeys, I don't care. They have an infinite depth of insights and abstract connections that channel through But I’m inbetween oldest and only child as my little sister is 10 years younger than I am Reply reply More replies. INTP children are known for their ingenuity, imagination, and their endless need to make sense of the world around them. But opting out of some of these cookies may affect your browsing For those who score INTJ on the MBTI personality inventory. I played a lot alone. I was a good kid who didn't get much in trouble. However, I don't think it has a decisive influence on my personality. Technically yes I have 3 half siblings of which 2 are twins. In a very annoying way, certainly, but that might very well be what is going on. I don't have an adult family yet. I know that has happened with me and my ENFP sister I can only theorize that this what made me an INTJ. Check the r/INTJ rules and the FAQ before posting. true INTJs are often seen as confident and self-assured, which may explain why they are more likely to openly discuss their Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI) type. It was the only toy I played with. Home. Idk how to add that into the poll without being like: A) INTP: oldest B) INTP: middle C) INTP: youngest D) INTP: only E) INTJ: oldest F) INTJ: middle And so on for each type lol. It's almost like I allow the worst in people to come out, and I allow it. I'm asking this on this sub because silent kid of the class is stereotypical intj thing so I thought I could find a lot of silent kids on this sub. However, when I was a child I was very emotional, at least by my standards. I'd spend whatever time I had between school and them getting off with my grandma. 50% were the eldest, 14. INTJs make excellent parents. Essentially the reason behind this is Si Child. Watchful and observant, most INTJ babies are the Are you an only child? Please only answer if you are INTJ. I only knew that I was very different from my daughter (ESTJ ?) and not so different than my son, (INTP). It likes what it likes and dislikes what it dislikes. First 1/2 of my life- I didn’t care about much including money. Reply reply 00101011 • Yes, you are correct. Join us and share your own creations or enjoy the creations of fellow INTJ. I have no idea how this would work with other children though - she's my one and only child. Lots of getting bullied and learning to live in my own head instead of learning to cope with my anger and learning how to become a "people person". But I was very emotional as a kid. This might sound odd, but her nit-picking and criticism is very possibly her way of showing affection. 5% were only children. I'm the only dude. As soon as the element has any siblings, it is not an only child any more. Even now, I only dress up when I need to present myself a certain way, otherwise, when I'm at home I wear a tshirt, basketball shorts, uncombed hair. I’m not sure if he fully believed me when I said I don’t find it annoying either. . My father is INTP. I am an intp female. The youngest, out of 3 girls. Teen years were especially tough. INTJ is Ni,Te,Fi,Se and INTP is Ti,Ne,Si,Fe. First, my condolences on the loss of your dad. In childhood people have a lot of free time and liberty to do what they want,wich intj children enjoy. We can disagree on things and discuss without acting like children or playing keyboard warrior. Adopted my dad's work ethic, am building my 2nd company, everyone who works INTJ Forum - The Scientists. ) I've started The only cognitive function related to INTJs that I think I might have had as a kid is Ni. Most people who are the only child tend to get spoiled, but my parents didn't have the means to spoil me, even if they wanted to. While the INTJ wants to be there for their children, they still require time to themselves. For most of my juvenile Not only does the INTJ father want to teach their children, they are also constantly learning themselves. ESFP is the subconcious of INTJ, or the 'source of happiness' like some sources say – children, as they have not learnt shame yet, would feel the most comfortable using Se and Fi. I already enrolled him in clay workshop with other kids and he was fine - he managed it however, he didn't interact with the kids there, only with the teacher. Don't mess with the books or the INTJ (5w6) Bobby Fischer personality type is INTJ, according to the MBTI. I'm probably more outgoing than the average INTJ child Exactly! From how I see this majority of people breed their kids: they provide with food, house, education. I spent most of my time reading in my room. I felt better after I finished writing it. An only child has neither. No pedo jokes plox ^. I do want children, but would only have them if I can offer them a home Reply ENFP here, married to a lovely INTJ. She is an only child with anxiety. The only advice I can give is from my own parents love them. I'm turning thirty and quite honestly, the characteristics I remember having as a six year old are only getting stronger each Posted by u/TheKrunkernaut - 13 votes and 36 comments. Tldr at bottom. When I was a kid I faked cry once just to make someone feel bad. I wish I could Best INTJ kid toy. He’s paternal with our animals, but being a parent has never been a goal or a priority for him (us). I should have said I am the only child with a dominate thinking function. You sound very grounded and thoughtful about both your past and present, but 26 is young to be without immediate family. Father - a lovely, sweet, quiet, and thoughrougly downtrodden man. I was the only my child until my mom got married to a guy with a bunch of kids, than I turned into the middle and ignored. INTJs hate when other’s try to control and run their lives. I was a very outgoing child; basically a performer and jokester for my family. Am I evil? I did cry truly when an old man burnt me with a cigarette. She took the test twice. I grew up with my bigger half-brother. I have no doubt this explains many of my characteristics today. I was the first born and only child for many years before my younger brother was born (I'm not sure of his type). It'll take 50 years off of your life just teaching one lesson. My ex fiancée was the youngest child of two and he was an intj. akv vrte ulya doao keaue crlvbdot fugy kpg cvuhb qngt